Wednesday, 14 March 2012

Educating Otherwise

Xavier, our son, will be five years old this November. His experience of formal education thus far has been attendance at a local playgroup for three mornings a week. In England, the next step for a five year old is school, but not in Xavier’s case. The Education Act 1996 defines the parents duty as "... to cause (the child) to receive efficient full-time education suitable to his (or her) age, ability and aptitude and to any special educational needs he (or she) may have either by regular attendance at school or 'otherwise.” So in Xavier’s case, I guess the operative word there is ‘otherwise’, because we are not planning to send him to school, at least not right now.

Our decision to educate our son out of school is something of a conversational minefield. We have many wonderfully understanding and supportive friends, but outside this circle I become rather uncomfortable talking about it. There are all sorts of reasons for this social discomfort: For one I don’t want our decision to be taken as a criticism of parents who choose to send their children to school; secondly, I really haven’t taken to the look that passes over some people’s faces when you tell them; and thirdly this invites the question of ‘why’ and I haven’t figured out the simple way to answer that with integrity.

It is not the radical decision some may think and there is a growing trend towards educating children away from school in this country. With some things we have a habit of thinking that they are the same the world over; it’s difficult to imagine them being any different to what we know. For example, if I asked you all to show me your wedding ring, you might think all married men and women pointed to the same digit on the left hand, the magical ring finger once believed to connect directly to the heart by the vena amoris and thus be a symbol of one's love. However, in a few European countries a Greek Orthodox bride will wear her wedding ring on the left hand before the marriage ceremony and transfer it to the right hand after the wedding. Likewise, children the world over do not all start compulsory schooling at the same age.

Whilst the journey through a fixed curriculum starts as young as four in England, children in sixteen other European countries (including France, Germany and Italy) are still at play, where the school age is six onwards. Perhaps more surprisingly - in Finland, a country regarded as having the highest educational standards in Europe, children start their compulsory education aged seven, and spend much fewer hours in the classroom than their English counterparts over their educational lives. So at this point in Xavier’s life, one could hardly justify raising an eyebrow at educating him out of school.

But this is England, and the shape of our modern day education system has risen up from the antiquated politics of the industrial revolution. Only two hundred years ago England argued virulently against the education of the poor for fear it would teach them to despise their lot in life and make them idle. One hundred and fifty years ago privileged girls who were lucky enough to be receiving an education had to make do with a curriculum aimed at preparing them for social display and companionship. Mean while, the Protestant work ethic of industrialized England set its poorer children to work under the strict regimes of the factory system, and to uncertain futures in the bowels of our coal mines. English children were a cheap source of labour for the industrialists and factory owners.

The demand for a more capable, ‘useful’ child worker; the demonization of the poor; warped religious attitudes to work and pleasure; an established upper class education reluctant to modernise its curriculum and purpose; an educational curriculum for the masses tempered by a fear of educating the poor; a narrow view of intellect conceived by our university system of educating; an era in which all that was to be learnt existed between the covers of books, in the head of a teacher, in a building called a school house; all of this is the mould from which today’s English education has been cast… and all this is what is wrong with education in England today.

All these tensions are evident in the way we organise our schools like factories and our children into batches of products grouped by age. Evident in the way our politicians still battle between an education for the masses or the preserve of an elite. Evident in the hierarchical way schools value and compartmentalise their subjects. Evident in the way each institution sees its purpose to be a stepping stone to the next institution. Evident in the way young people are directed towards futures that are perceived to be useful for our economy. Evident in the way the childhood joy we have for creativity, drawing, singing, dancing and music is quickly extinguished by a pressing timetable of more ‘important’ pursuits. Evident in the balance of power between educational institutions and children. Evident in the way the process of academic inflation has made a masters necessary where once a degree would do. Evident in the way we medicate our children to be like other children.

I’ve met many talented teachers in my life, but this is what they are up against and this is no criticism of them. Education, as an institution in this country, is dancing out of tune to the music. Anyone who is really interested in learning, would not choose to start with a model of schooling as we know it. And thankfully, English law permits that we don’t have to.



12 comments:

  1. Standing Ovation! Bravo! This wonderful essay should be widely read. I mean that. It's extremely well-written and I completely agree with your stance and your reasons.

    Outstanding.

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    1. Gosh Teresa, thank you... that really is very generous of you to say so. Alicia and I have been bouncing this idea around for such a long time, and we really do feel it is the right thing for Xavier. There is so much more to say on the subject, but that is for another post, or two! It's a journey for all of us as a family, but that is exactly what we feel learning should be like, shared and reciprocated and personal. The truth is, I've learnt so much from Xavier already. I'm looking forward to meeting others out there that have made a similar choice and writing about our own journey in future posts.

      Thank you again.

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  2. Very interesting. I have to say, I'm not surprised that you've both taken this route - and as a professional teacher you're way more qualified than most to do it. I wish you all the best (you don't need luck, you'll both be great).

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    1. Thank for those good wishes. About the teacher thing, not really sure how much of that training and practice will be part of Xavier's experience ... I've really resisted terms like homeschooling because it's easy to imagine recreating school life at home... I can't see any point to that. A lot of his learning at present is happening in a completely unstructured way by just being culturally involved. It's something that is innate to him and already gives him pleasure. It's something that makes him devour new experiences. I think we are just keen to keep that flame inside him alive. School seems to be one of the most efficient ways of extinguishing it.

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  3. Fun fact....I know one other person who home-schooled their child. Now, at Y9 they have sent the child into main-stream school because they feel this is the point at which the need for standardised qualifications leads to the need to receive a standardised curriculum . Also the child has friends at the school and felt happy to join in.

    As a student the child has settled into the routine just fine, is happy and well adjusted. Home schooling has, as far as I can tell, produced no problems either academically or socially for this student, who is coping with the new structure to the day and the curriculum - some aspects of which are totally new lessons never done before.

    The parents of this child are also teachers......coincidence? I think not!
    When you work in a school you appreciate the value of education...but you see the inherent flaws in a system that is subject to the whims of political fashion. We know that children are not all the same just because they were born into the same year group and yet the system does not allow for that infinite variety. Those who work within the system are powerless to improve it. Those with the power to improve it know nothing about education so they flex their power in accordance with their egos instead.

    Home schooling is a brave choice. It allows you to draw a child along their own path, letting them explore where they have interest and supporting them where they have limited interest but a need to learn.

    I bet I can guess what some of the look are on people's faces. We are always slightly unnerved by people who take a different road but remember that some of those looks may also be awe, an inability to know what to say when you are impressed by someone's boldness but don't want to sound stupid!

    Best of luck with it...
    Z:-)

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    1. Thanks z... what you said about education being a political football is so true and rarely appreciated outside educational circles. The extent to which our Victorian model of education (not a great starting point) is reinvented time and time again so that politician can remain popular is just tragic. Tragic because teachers go into the profession with a love for learning and an understanding of child development, but find themselves time and time again being instructed by Whitehall to do things which compromise that practice. I've seen too many teachers who've had the passion knocked out of them by relentless political change over their teaching careers.

      Interesting too what you say about that child in year 9. The option is always there for Xavier and it's something we will always consider along the way. Just think, I have no idea what the world will be like in five years let alone when Xavier is old enough to be in year 9! I wonder what the world will look like when Xavier is my age and I am a dinosaur!!!!

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  4. ....and a criticism.....tut-tut Mr B!! I just realised you haven't done your homework - see me! :-)

    Under your list of "The Players" you still have X as "now 3". Clearly not!

    Z:-)

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  5. I spent 18 years homeschooling. I know that in the UK they don't like the term homeschooling, but for us it did NOT mean school at home. We did learning out in the world.

    Matt's 24 now, an engineering student at a university.
    Lyssa is 18. She hasn't decided yet what she wants to do.

    There's a lot of stuff on my blog about homeschooling but it's pretty difficult to find, I made it hard to search the blog after the work comp attorneys tried to get me fired over it. Assholes.

    Anyway, if you want to know anything in particular, I am sure I probably wrote something about it.

    I think that people should evaluate educational choices based on the individual needs of their child(ren) and not worry about what everyone else chooses to do.

    Our educational choices were never a commentary on public schooling, teachers, parental choices of any sort... they were merely the best fit for our children.

    Learning outside the institution was a good choice for us.

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    1. Totally agree with you Ami. I'd love to read more about your experiences of homeschooling.

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  6. Thanks for sharing this. I thikn my strict school, and learning that the world is black or white, had a lot to do with my depression, esp when I woke up to the real world and discovered that it's not just black or white, but lots of colours, and shades of grey
    Noch Noch

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    1. I know what you mean Noch Noch. Both my wife and I did relatively well in our formal educations but it feels like we spent the rest of our lives learning what we really needed to make some sense of the world and find our place in it.

      I hope all is well with you.

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